"But each of us is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desires. Then when desire conceives, it gives birth to sin, and when sin is full grown, it gives birth to death." - James 1:14-15
What is that desire that seems to stir you to pursue lustful activity? Every man has a sex drive. But not every man understands what that driving force wants to really accomplish. Thus, too often men feel the tug of the drive and seek short term immediate gratification rather than its real aim. What's that aim? A fulfilling, spectacular, relationship with an amazing woman with whom you will go and bear fruit for God.
Discern the real aim of the desire. What does it really seek to achieve - long term. Delayed gratification is the secret to success in many arena. So let this desire compel you to pursue its real goal. Let it prompt you to become a more sensitive husband, to be a better provider that a Christian woman would want for herself and future and family, to get spiritually, financially, physically fit.